我一直覺得…
跟人計較並不會讓自己多占便宜~
只有可能會造成一個沒完沒了的迴圈罷了
一但一方先開頭計較:這些是屬於「我的」,哪些才屬於「你的」;別侵害「我的」權益,但我也沒有義務要幫「你」……
我覺得那種人與人之間的相處的感覺就會變差很多了~(也就是說:會感覺很差)
而且如此行為不見得真的會讓自己多占些便宜,反而會因為唇槍舌劍地針鋒相對,而浪費了我覺得反而沒有必要浪費的精神、時間及力氣。
「吃虧就是占便宜」這句話也許乍聽之下是很矛盾的~
但如果仔細一想,因為「不計較」而吃虧,雖然在短期來看似乎是損失,可是長期看來反而不是如此。
而反過來,如果樣樣都計較~深怕自己吃虧,反而會浪費很多時間、精神及力氣在那種煩瑣的事情之上。
一來,一直盯著小地方看,會使自己的格局狹小…是沒辦法做大事的。(男女皆是有機會做大事的)
二來,時間、精神與力氣…與其浪費在那種事情之上,不如拿來享受更美好的事情之上不是更好?所謂「生命就該浪費在美好的事物之上」嘛~!
Dawn發表於某論壇: 星期四 六月 28, 2007 12:38 am
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